Resources

A small library
for the long road.

A handful of books, practices, mantras, and supports I return to often — offered here as supplements to the work, not substitutes for it.

An open journal beside dried lavender

Book recommendations

Reading list

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk

On trauma and the wisdom of the body.

Self-Compassion

Kristin Neff

The foundational text on meeting yourself with kindness.

Radical Acceptance

Tara Brach

A gentle guide to presence and letting go of the war within.

When Things Fall Apart

Pema Chödrön

Wisdom for the seasons that ask everything of us.

In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts

Gabor Maté

On addiction, trauma, and compassion.

Feeling Good

David D. Burns

A classic, practical introduction to CBT.

Supplemental practices

For body & mind

Therapy is one thread of a recovery; these are some of the others I often recommend alongside our work.

Acupuncture

Traditional Chinese medicine that supports the nervous system and emotional regulation.

Yoga

Movement and breath as a way to inhabit the body and quiet the mind.

Fitness & Strength

Regular movement as an act of agency, energy, and care for yourself.

Breathwork

Conscious breathing to shift state, calm the body, and create space inside.

Journaling

Putting thoughts on paper so they stop circling inside your head.

Time in Nature

An old, reliable medicine — sunlight, slowness, and the unhurried world.

Nutrition

Nourishing the body with intention — food as fuel, steadiness, and a quiet form of self-respect.

Mantras

Words to come home to.

  • 01

    I am safe in this moment.

  • 02

    I can do hard things, gently.

  • 03

    This feeling is here, and it will pass.

  • 04

    I am allowed to take up space.

  • 05

    I am the one I have been waiting for.

  • 06

    I return to my breath. I return to my body.

  • 07

    What I practice grows stronger.

  • 08

    I choose presence over perfection.

If you need support now

You are not alone.

If you or someone you love is in crisis, please use one of the resources below. They are free, confidential, and staffed by people who care.

  • 988 — Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text 988, anytime, in the U.S.
  • SAMHSA Helpline1-800-662-HELP (4357) — free, confidential, 24/7.
  • Crisis Text LineText HOME to 741741.
  • NAMI Helpline1-800-950-NAMI (6264).